Both...
I Seriously rather no one can understand a situation better than the two individuals actually facing it. But will like to share one thing with you two...
I had a friend... we were togather for like 18 years.. since childhood... same neighbourhood... same school... same friendcircle and we two were like best of pals... ek baar miene usse pooch liya whether something was wrong with his family... and he got offended by it... one thing led to another we fought a lot.... aur fir usne keh diya that he wont ever come in my way... after that day... he has never communicated with me for any matter... shayad miene offend kiya hoga usse... i did say sorry... but he is still not talking to me.. I Remember him often i have spent so many days with him... Fight, Laughing, Crying and sharing and sooooooo many different things we have seen each other grow up... I Miss Him... woh ek baat ko itna aage leke gaaye.... now after three years... I Find this incident as one of the memories between me and that friend... i still feel the pinch of his absence...
With time i know the anger that is going inside you two will go and you both will feel the pinch of absence. Tum log toh mujhse baade ho... let go the ego... bahot cheeze boldi tum logo ne ek dusre ko... bahot misunderstandings hogayi... i know it wont go so soon... but atleast try and normalize... Not talking is not the solution... Talk and not Fight. and Talk Straight rather than Sarcastically... it will ease out most of the things...
ok m not a grand mother... but i hope this thing will put something across your tiny little brain and huge wala ego...
I Seriously rather no one can understand a situation better than the two individuals actually facing it. But will like to share one thing with you two...
I had a friend... we were togather for like 18 years.. since childhood... same neighbourhood... same school... same friendcircle and we two were like best of pals... ek baar miene usse pooch liya whether something was wrong with his family... and he got offended by it... one thing led to another we fought a lot.... aur fir usne keh diya that he wont ever come in my way... after that day... he has never communicated with me for any matter... shayad miene offend kiya hoga usse... i did say sorry... but he is still not talking to me.. I Remember him often i have spent so many days with him... Fight, Laughing, Crying and sharing and sooooooo many different things we have seen each other grow up... I Miss Him... woh ek baat ko itna aage leke gaaye.... now after three years... I Find this incident as one of the memories between me and that friend... i still feel the pinch of his absence...
With time i know the anger that is going inside you two will go and you both will feel the pinch of absence. Tum log toh mujhse baade ho... let go the ego... bahot cheeze boldi tum logo ne ek dusre ko... bahot misunderstandings hogayi... i know it wont go so soon... but atleast try and normalize... Not talking is not the solution... Talk and not Fight. and Talk Straight rather than Sarcastically... it will ease out most of the things...
ok m not a grand mother... but i hope this thing will put something across your tiny little brain and huge wala ego...
Dont Let Go Relationships like this...
Regards,
Tanu.
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