- Of or relating to ownership or possession.
- Having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others: a possessive parent.
A Possessive Me. This is the side of mine which people usually dont like to see. I dont show everything, everything what i feel (only when im possessive). I feel possessive about people only when im not getting the care, the attention that i used to, or someone has stopped behaving in a particular way just because of the new relationship he/she has got into.
There is a girl, she is very intelligent, very kind and gentle, straightforward, and a very very good human being. I know have talked her many times. My brother had started a new (now old) relationship with her, the problem is he shared the same relationship as he did with me. Yes Yes it is a brother-sister relationship. Now he says that he loves us both the same way. I dont want to dominate him or any of his relationships, no i dont want that. He marks the place where he and that girl first met on google earth, but didnt even bother to find out where we met first. He has stopped sharing with me most of the things which he used to share before she came. He has stopped all the dicussions with me, i think he finds her more suitable for all that(there are many more incidence). I dont deny, i know im an average person or may be even low. My bro once dedicated a song to me, but after she came he dedicated that song to her and gave me a new song. this is what he means by loving us both equally. Now u must be thinking im very materialistic, yes i dont say no Im. The reason why i dont believe in this loving equally business is that it is said Love deepens and grows as time goes by. It is like a tree it gives strength to the relationship as it deepens and grows. Ofcourse it is true, as time passes there are so many things that one has shared with the other.
Im not Jealous because that girl is so intelligent and so so nice and all. I love being me. the only thing that bothers and hurts is my brother behaving like this. Ok he can like her more, but atleast shouldnt say that he loves us both equally.
i know after reading this blog he is going to get mad at me, and in all probability will show that girl. Its ok, i dont want to hurt anybody's feelings, and if i do so, please forgive me. I only know one thing i had to say it.
